Are you riding the blame bus?

Are you riding the blame bus?

Are you stuck in the past? Spending too much time thinking about something that happened yesterday, or last month? Endlessly rehashing conversations and berating yourself for saying something dumb, not being kind enough, or that whole host of bad decisions from 2009?...
Don’t want to call your parents? Read this.

Don’t want to call your parents? Read this.

My mom got sick a month after I graduated from college. It was a tumultuous year full of hospital stays, and for a long time, we didn’t know if she would live. Fast forward almost ten years, and my mom is still with us. We didn’t lose her, but due to the...
How often do you wash your coffee mug?

How often do you wash your coffee mug?

Long ago, in my dating days, I went on a first date. We were talking about how much we both liked coffee when he said, “My officemate doesn’t wash his coffee mug. He lets it sit on his desk overnight, and it gets really gross rings around the inside. It...

What is it that you want? (and free e-book)

What is it that you want? This is the question I ask my friend when she tells me about the guy who might send her pictures of his abs late at night, but never comes to visit her (she’s asked). He’s two states away, but there are planes, trains, buses, cars. Do you...